By Dave DeFusco
In a bright therapy room filled with toys, Kasey Giordano waits with quiet determination. She doesnât speak. She doesnât prompt. She doesnât rush to fill the silence. She waitsâ10 seconds, 12 secondsâuntil the young boy across from her, a child with autism and minimal verbal skills, meets her gaze, looks at the bubbles in her hand, then back at her again. He doesnât say the word âmore,â not yet. But his body speaks for him. And for Giordano, a student in the M.S. in Speech-Language Pathology, that small exchange is nothing short of profound.
âThat wait timeâitâs everything,â she said. âWhen I slowed down, I created the space for him to communicate. Thatâs a win.â
For Giordano, who is currently completing a clinical rotation at Childrenâs Specialized Hospital, each of those âwinsââas tiny as they may seem to an outsiderâare reminders of why she chose speech-language pathology in the first place. And why, of all the hospitals in the state, this one in particular means everything to her.
Long before she ever stepped into a therapy room, Giordano grew up watching her mother hustle through long shifts as a social worker at Childrenâs Specialized Hospital. Whether it was early mornings, late nights or weekends, her mom showed upâalwaysâwith energy, empathy and an unshakable commitment to helping families navigate some of the hardest moments of their lives.
âShe busted her butt every day,â said Giordano. âShe had this impact on people. You could feel it. And I remember thinking, âI want to be like her. I want to make a difference like she does.ââ
Her motherâs ability to switch seamlessly between the loving warmth of âMomâ at home and the composed, confident presence of a social worker at the hospital left an indelible mark. âSheâs such a great communicatorâso bubbly and loving,â said Giordano. âWatching her operate in both roles, I realized the power of communication, of presence. That was inspiring.â
Itâs no surprise, then, that when it came time to choose a career pathâand later, a clinical rotation siteâGiordano had her sights set. âI told myself, âIâm going to get to Childrenâs no matter what it takes,ââ she said. âItâs where I belong.â
Giordano enrolled at the Katz School not just with a dream but with a mission: To become an advocate for individuals with complex communication needs. Her belief in communication as a human right is deeply rooted.
âNo matter your shape, size, color or abilityâeveryone deserves a voice,â she said. âI want to help people find theirs, even if that voice comes through gestures, facial expressions or technology.â
At Childrenâs Specialized Hospital, the nationâs leading provider of inpatient and outpatient care for children with special health challenges, Giordano is turning that mission into practice. With 14 locations across New Jersey, the hospital treats children from birth to 21 years of age facing everything from chronic illness and brain injuries to behavioral and developmental disorders.
âKaseyâs work at Childrenâs Specialized Hospital is a testament to the importance of human connection in patient care,â said Dr. Marissa Barrera, assistant dean of health sciences at the Katz School. âEffective clinical care is not about fixing or forcingâitâs about creating space, honoring each patientâs pace and believing that every form of communication is meaningful."
Her daily caseload includes children with expressive and receptive language deficits, articulation challenges and joint attention difficultiesâchildren whose brains developed differently and who may struggle with even the most basic communication tasks.
âSome of the kids I work with donât speak much at all,â she said, âbut that doesnât mean theyâre not communicating. My job is to figure out how.â
In one recent session, Giordano worked with a young client on the autism spectrum who was largely nonverbal and resistant to traditional play. âHe doesnât enjoy toys. He doesnât engage naturally. And Iâm this big, bubbly person,â she said. âBut I realized I couldnât expect him to match my energyâI had to match his.â
That meant adjusting her tone, her pacing, her expectations. It also meant honoring silence as part of the therapeutic process. âWe take communication for granted. Most people respond in a second or two,â she said. âBut for some kids, they need 10 to 12 seconds just to process. When I give them that space, they surprise me.â
In the case of her quiet client, Giordano used bubbles as both a toy and a tool. Blow, pause. Cap the bottle. Hold it up with a smile. Wait. Eventually, the child looked at the bubbles, then at her. A flicker of understanding. A desire. A connection.
âThatâs communication,â she said. âItâs not about wordsâitâs about engagement, intention, and understanding. These kids donât need to come up to where I am. I need to meet them where they are.â
Giordanoâs journey is just beginning, but the seeds were planted long ago watching her mother serve others with patience and heart. Now, standing in that same hospital, sheâs learning to do the same.
âOne of my professors said, âWeâre not just teaching kids how to talk. Weâre teaching them how to connect with the world,ââ she said. âThatâs what I want to do. Thatâs why Iâm here.â